
I was pretty good during the two days of meet and greets and various functions we had to attend. A few tears were shed but I expected that. When it was time to say good-bye I still thought I was going to be able to hold it together. We hugged and hugged and hugged. She got teary before I did but then that was my undoing. I cried as my hubby and I drove away. I woke really early the next morning and could not control the tears, so I just let them flow. I tear up when I think of her not getting daily hugs. How sad for all college kids. NO HUGS! My friends that live nearby to her have orders to give her hugs on my behalf. It won't be the same but it is better than nothing. I miss her hugs too.
She says she is doing pretty good. A video sent by phone from her brother set her off a bit. Seeing him AND hearing him was too much I guess. Her roommate is very homesick. Her family is back home now too. Many more miles and hours away than we are. My daughter says she feels like she is just at camp and the reality hasn't set in yet. I told her by the time that it does it will be time to come home for the holidays. She will be pretty busy since the school is on the quarter system.
After seeing the survival kit that was posted at Covered Porches and Screen Doors a few weeks back, I decided that I needed to do something similar. Into a big ol' popcorn tin that I had, I put in these items. I gave it to her before we left but told her she couldn't open it until Sunday or Monday sometime.
Two different devotionals, if and when she has time for them;


Some of her favorite candies;

This set of Sharpies that she would fondly look at in the store;

She loves canned chicken noodle soup and doesn't get it at home;

and just in case she might forget...

The shoes are teeny, made for a little, little girl. But a perfect size to have as a little reminder, on a shelf or in a keepsake box.
I miss her lots. She is going to do GREAT and I am so excited for her. I will really be looking forward to her birthday in November. We are going to see her then. I have told my son he is not allowed to leave home. He just rolls his eyes and says "Whatever, Mom".
So we came home late Saturday and hit the ground running. We had a wedding reception/potluck at church on Sunday. We had 'guests' move into the guest house on Sunday night. Family of church friends that are getting married THIS week. The only sewing I have done is adding some netting pouf to the bride's slip. What a job that was! So much netting, slippery fabric. I ended up having to HAND SEW the netting to the slip. Ya KNOW how I love me some hand sewing...NOT! I ended up sewing it to my jeans TWICE! I finally quit for the night and finished this morning. I was able to secure it all with a machine zig zag this morning. Reminder to self: do NOT go into the wedding dress alteration business.
The weather was GORGEOUS here today! I made a list of things to do today and I think I have gotten them all done! Oh yeah! That's a great feeling. Sewing will be on my list for later this week. A little packing or organizing each day too.
Praise - our travels to and from college were safe. Our daughter is happily moved into her dorm and underway with her classes. Prayers - that we would be an encouragement to her, although we all miss her terribly. For the weddings this weekend. Our daughter will attend one there and we will attend one here. That the young people getting married would truly strive to have Godly marriages. Also praying that the weather would cooperate for the Idaho OUTDOOR wedding.

What an awesome gift tin! Laughter & tears--express the essence of mothers . Prayers to you and your daughter.
ReplyDeleteBTW, the quilt looks great on her bed!
Oh yes, that quilt does look beautiful and so is your daughter. Congratulations on getting your list done. I'm so very jealous! Tha is so wonderful that you and your daughter have such a great relationship. I hope my daughter and I have the same when she gets older. Of course right now Mom's the bomb! :) Hugs to you in this tender time.
ReplyDeleteI'm just going to pretend that my children will never be leaving. Hard to read this post. Hard to let them go. I'll be there with ya in a year.....tears and all. hey, another thing we'll have in common. I'm starting to make a list. 1)children leaving home. :)
ReplyDeleteI love your care package... Great job, Tons of memories.....
ReplyDeleteThose little red shoes had me in tears. And remembering how hard it was to leave my firstborn at college so far away. The next three have landed in college close to home so not so many tears. Two to go . . . And I bet the last one will be the hardest of all.
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by my blog!
Love your quilting!!
~jane
Oh it is so hard. I can totally relate. What a cute post. Such fun things for you to give her. Love that.
ReplyDeleteAwww... CJ, you did a great job sending her off feeling loved! What amazing gifts (with the cutest tags!) and an incredible quilt. She will surely want to come home a lot and see such a great mom!
ReplyDeleteMom you're the best! I love how your creativity can be used as something special to touch others (especially me!). I love the quilt so much. It is a constant reminder of you. I looked at my birthday scrapbook album (well only the pages with the family) this afternoon! Ahh why did I do that? Only made me cry tons more than I already was. LOVE LOVE LOVE everything you sent in the tin. The shoes are on my dresser so I see them several times a day.
ReplyDeleteThis is tough but I know we'll all get through it. I love being able to read your blog, it's like I'm still there at my desk hearing about all the fabic, paper, and things you are doing.
Cannot wait to hug you all in 5 weeks! Hugs and kisses
Okay, I really didn't need to cry right now. That was so sweet. How sweet the both of you are. Hugs to you. Loved the shoes.
ReplyDeleteI can't imagine having to send off my kids to college. I'm still in the diaper and kindergarten and 2nd grade phase. I know that day will come all too soon. your daughter looks happy, though, sitting on her beautiful new quilt in her dorm. the survival kit was also a GREAT idea. hope it's going well for all of you!
ReplyDeleteShe is so cute and I love the quilt, I have three daughter, when the first went to college, I tried and held it well until I got home and cried so much, I made myself sick! My middle daughter told me years later that I was driving her crazy because i was always asking her,where, who, what, anything to be with her, and our third daughter was 4 so that helped a lot. But I will tell you a sercet, that not many first timers know, I wish I did. When they come home, they are still the wonderful child you let go, they want to be with you, to share special times, and it makes it so much more easier to send them off. Our youngest is 13 and she is our last and I know it is coming, but, my middle daughter came back the same and I know this one will too!! hang in there Mom, all will be great!!!!!
ReplyDeletePS I found you on Nanette's blog!